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Oct. 7, 2024

Episode 40 - Revised Terms and Conditions

We’ve often underpinned a lot of our previous discussions and insights with the idea of embracing others without condition, without distinction. But what does that mean? Today we’ll turn that stone over and try to better unde...

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Aug. 16, 2024

Episode 39 - Zip the Lip and Unzip the Heart

Buddhist concepts, doctrine and traditional practices can seem daunting and nearly impossible to work into our busy and challenging lives. But what the Buddha taught — and what has been reinforced and highlighted in Shinnyo B...

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July 21, 2024

Episode 38 - Equanimity: The Flowering of Gratitude

Having suffered some health issues recently, I lost my center and focus — I became focused on my suffering and my inability to take action as I had previously. With help, I was able to get out of this negative …

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April 23, 2024

Episode 37 - The Heft & Weight of a Grudge

Facing an imminent meeting with someone to whom I had a grudge, I decided I was no longer willing to carry the weight and negativity of old grudges — the one against this person or any of my more than …

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March 15, 2024

Episode 36 - Pointing to Gratitude

We go through life conflating thankfulness and gratitude and I suspect gratitude is something much deeper, more significant. Using some of the Buddha’s teaching, as well as our own experience, we discover that gratitude emerg...

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Feb. 7, 2024

Episode 35 - Powerful Magic: Apology

Conflicts and disagreements and toxicity are pervasive in our world — from society at large to our neighborhoods and even inner circle of family and friends. This all leads to conflict — quarrels, fights and disagreements wit...

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Jan. 10, 2024

Episode 34 - When I'm the Jerk in the Room

Recognizing when we ourselves are being jerks is an opportunity to look deeply into our psyches, our egos, and find the places in our mind where we cling, grasp and protect our fragile egos. Finding the roots of Buddhism’s “t...

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Dec. 1, 2023

Episode 33 - The Power of Spiritual Agency

Building on what we discussed before, we tackle the question -- how can I change the world if I can't even change my life or the people around me? And how can I do so if I am overwhelmed by …

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Oct. 30, 2023

Episode 32 - A Garden Hose vs Global Conflagrations

This time we take on the heaviness of current events and how to pivot to positivity.

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Oct. 3, 2023

Episode 31 - Just What Do We Mean By Altruism?

Doing for others, putting others first, giving away that which is ours to benefit others. This other-focus is counterintuitive to our more baser natures -- and our egos' drive to survive and thrive. But it is the secret sauce...

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Sept. 16, 2023

Episode 30 - The Weight and Power of Words

Throughout human history, there have been words of power -- mantras, spells, incantations. But it isn't just these special words that have power. Our everyday words are also enormously powerful. They can uplift or hurt. Sooth...

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Aug. 18, 2023

Episode 29 - The Rush of Chaos

Our lives -- with ambition, career and family and friends, with social media trends and distractions, or for some, just trying to get by -- life comes at us so fast it is hard to get a quiet moment just …

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Aug. 10, 2023

Episode 28 - When A Jerk Crosses Our Path

It can't be denied or ignored... Some people are just jerks. This reality poses challenges to our spiritual work trying to be unconditional, accepting and altruistic without regard for friend or foe. How do we address the jer...

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July 22, 2023

Episode 27 - Spiritual Listening - Listening with your Heart

When we feel irritated or bothered by others when they're talking to us, we can use this negative response to create a positive outcome. We can use it to listen with our entire beings to the other person and in …

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July 7, 2023

Episode 26 - Never Enough Time

Time - they say it flows like a river, but frankly that river flows way too fast sometimes. Today we'll discuss how to regain balance from overly stressful situations and times in our lives as well as how to use …

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June 25, 2023

Episode 25 - It's Not MY Problem!

Our tendency, under the sway of our egos, is to become defensive in situations where we are challenged or tested or blamed. Using that feeling of defensiveness can be a cue to show us a different way to react -- …

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May 24, 2023

Episode 24 - Practice Makes Perfect

How many times have we started a new project, set a new goal, started a new program with the goal of making changes in our life or lifestyle, hobby, health or any positive step forward and, after time, noticed that …

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May 17, 2023

Episode 23: Creating Happiness from the Wreckage of Anger

Anger is a powerful emotion that can lay wasted to what is positive in our lives. Despite that anger is something we all experience -- maybe more frequently than we'd like to admit. There are ways to use our experiences …

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May 10, 2023

Episode 22: When all is Noise, Finding Harmony Amidst Diversity

In our fractured and polarized world in which we all can't even agree on what is fact and what is true, how do we find the way to be of help and hold true to our intention of being altruistic …

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April 27, 2023

Episode 21: Grief & Loss, The Handbrake of Spiritual Progress

Feeling grief and loss when we lose loved or revered ones is all part of a process. But it is one that can overwhelm us and bring us to a halt in terms of spiritual progress and being available to …

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April 19, 2023

Episode 20: Karmic Stain Remover - Making Amends

In our lives, no matter how hard we try otherwise, we still sometimes hurt others with words, negative thoughts or selfish actions. These can accumulate and drag us down into negativity. Instead, we can recognize these mistak...

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April 14, 2023

Episode 19 - Grace - Many Rivers One Ocean

Sometimes we discover insight and opportunity from the least likely people, places and situations. Being open and aware allows us to discover and share a sense of grace as well as find the intersection where our authentic sel...

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April 7, 2023

Episode 18 - Spiritual Alchemy - Turning Outrage into Joyful Action

Our world is full of people and situations that cause outrage and anger causing us to scream into the void - or shout at our TVs or send nasty online messages. But we can use that which outrages us as …

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March 27, 2023

Episode 17 - Happy Equinox - Time to Practice for Others

The Equinox - or seasonal divide - gives us an opportunity to reflect and look at who we are and how we became the people we are. At this time, it is a great practice to share our blessings and …

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